July 8 2019

Why Do You Need To Make One More Trip Around This Mountain? Murmuring and How it will Keep You Stuck

Why Do You Need To Make One More Trip Around This Mountain? Murmuring and How it will Keep You Stuck

Good Morning, Good Morning! It is that time again!  Grab a cup of something fabulous, set aside a few minutes so we can sit together and chat and let’s go!  This week I spent a far bit of my devotional time reading through the books of Exodus and Numbers.  I’m fascinated with the story of the Children of Israel and their journey from Egypt, through the desert, to the Promised Land. This week I was particularly struck by their murmuring.  What I would love to share with you this week starts with a question? Why do you need to make one more trip around this mountain?  Murmuring and how it will keep you stuck.

Checking In

Before we get started I always like to check in! How was your week?  How did you do with anchoring your moments and being more intentional about your time?  It is a process, so don’t get discouraged if it didn’t work out so well this week, stick with it and it will come in time! 

There is a Rumble

Murmuring; there is something about the word itself that has a feeling of disruption or unsettledness.  Merriam Webster defines a murmur as a low indistinct but often continuous sound (retrieved from: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/murmur). Murmuring happens when we don’t have or choose not to use our courage to muster up our assertive voice to bring forth our complaints; instead we lower our voice, turn our head slightly towards one who will listen and begin to voice our opinions.  Murmuring has the feeling of a low continuous rumble.  Not enough to make a change, but just enough to unsettle the masses.

How it all Started

In the book of Exodus we read about the Children of Israel who were being oppressed in the land of Egypt.  God sent Moses in to set them free from their oppression and to lead them into the Promised Land; a land He had prepared for them. In the process of setting them free, the Children of Israel witnessed many miracles through the hand of Moses.  Obviously their faith grew through the process, because when it came time for them to leave Egypt, they packed up their belongings and followed Moses out into the desert. 

They Developed Their Faith at the Red Sea

The Lord led them out of Egypt with a pillar of fire by night and a cloud by day.  He led them out into the wilderness by the way of the Red Sea.  God was intentional about where He was leading them.  Their faith was about to be strengthened!  The time had come to see the Hand of the Lord move in a mighty and miraculous way.  The Egyptians realized their mistake in letting the Children of Israel go and followed hard after them. When the Children of Israel looked up they saw the Red Sea in front of them and the army of Pharaoh behind them. They raised up their voices and cried out to the Lord. 

Do Not Be Afraid

Moses said: “Do not be afraid. Stand still, and see the salvation of the LORD, which He will accomplish for you today. For the Egyptians whom you see today, you shall see again no more forever. “The LORD will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace.” (Exodus 14:13-14 (NKJV) – Now the LORD spoke to. Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/nkjv/exo/14/1/s_64001).

Faith rose up in the Children of Israel!  When Moses stretched out his hand, the sea divided before them and the Children of Israel moved forward in great faith and crossed over!

And Then Came the Murmuring

The Children of Israel were given a mighty victory over the Egyptians.  They were now on their way to the Promised Land! Given the cloud that went before them by day and the pillar of fire by night and this great victory granted them at the Hand of the Lord, we could assume that the story of the Children of Israel and the remainder of their journey into the Promised Land would be one of faith and continued victory.  But the Children of Israel became stuck. They are well known in the Scriptures for their constant murmuring.  That murmuring and lack of ability to activate their faith and learn the lessons needed, kept them stuck in the desert 40 years.  How many times did they round the same mountains again and again wondering when they would finally see the Promised Land?   

What was all the Murmuring About?

As we read further we can see that every time the Children of Israel faced a challenge, the murmuring started.  There are many instances, but in looking more closely, they seem to be grouped into three main categories. 

1) When they choose not to activate their faith

2) When they didn’t distinguish between their needs and their wants.

3) When they were trying to run someone else’s race

Activate your Faith

1) Three days into the wilderness, after the mighty miracle at the Red Sea, they came to Marah where they found water but discovered it too bitter to drink.  It was time to activate their faith!  If the God that went before them could part the Red Sea so they could cross, surely He could provide water to drink.  They had the measure of faith they required – they had activated it at the Rea Sea when they stepped onto the dry land between the separated waters.  But the Scripture tells us that they “complained against Moses.” 

 

Perhaps they were tired of traveling, worn down by the desert heat or distracted by the uncertainty of their future.  However, this was the time they needed to activate the measure of faith placed down inside of them.  Instead of doing so, they choose to murmur.  God still provided the water, but their faith missed an opportunity to be activated and the lesson wasn’t learned.  Several times they choose not to step up and activate the faith that was within them.  Each time I believe their faith was weakened. 

 

Finally as they Lord prepared them to enter the Promised Land, when their spies were sent in to survey the land, their faith was so depleted that 8 came back with a negative report with only 2 of them encouraging the people to go forth into what God had for them; what was already theirs!  As a result of this unwillingness to activate their faith, they Lord caused them to wander 40 years in the desert until that whole generation had died.  Because of their murmuring and their depleted faith, they never appropriated the very promise God took them out of Egypt to obtain.

Needs vs. Wants

2) The Children of Israel were many and as we can imagine it would have required a lot of food to keep them fed.  When they murmured about the lack of food, God provided Manna, bread from heaven, that fell fresh like a heavy dew on the land each morning.  It was to be gathered each day, not to be saved or stored.  What was provided daily was sufficient to meet all their dietary needs.

 

And yet, after a time, they tired of the daily bread from heaven; the daily bread that was meeting all their needs.  In Numbers we read that the murmuring started once again.  They wanted meat.  Again, God met their need; He brought flocks of quail into the camp for the Children of Israel.  But as they feasted on their meat, they failed to understand that once again they had not learned the lesson. They hadn’t recognized the difference between their needs and their wants. Their needs were being met.  Their needs and wants would both have been met in the Promised Land had they stopped their murmuring and waiting on the plan the Lord had for them.  

Stay in your own Lane

3) The other moment of murmuring that stood out for me was when the people rose up against Moses and Aaron and their leadership. In Numbers 16:3 we read: “They gathered together against Moses and Aaron, and said to them, You take too much upon yourselves, for all the congregation is holy, every one of them, and the LORD is among them. Why then do you exalt yourselves above the assembly of the LORD?” (Numbers 16:1 (NKJV) – Now Korah the son of. Retrieved from  https://www.blueletterbible.org/nkjv/num/16/1/s_133001). 

 

The people were headed towards the Promised Land.  The cloud went before them by day and the pillar of fire by night.  Throughout this journey God spoke to Moses, the leader He had chosen.  Moses intervened on their behalf many times with the Lord. And yet, these people felt that they should be leaders as well.  Instead of focusing on their own day to day responsibilities, activating their own faith and gaining entrance to the Promised Land, they began focusing on what Moses and Aaron were doing. And the murmuring ensured.

 

The murmuring about Moses and Aaron was just a continuation of the murmuring that had taken place all along. At this point they had chosen not to enter the Promised Land as the Lord had intended. In all the instances of murmuring they had depleted their faith and because of that they found themselves stuck in the desert.

What About Us?

It is wonderful to talk about the Children of Israel and their murmuring and what they should have done differently. But I wonder how many times we ourselves get caught up in the same patterns? How often has God asked us to step up and activate our faith and we have found ourselves murmuring instead?  When was the last time we murmured about not getting what we wanted, rather than being grateful that our needs were being met while God prepared us for a time and place where we wouldn’t have to worry about either?  How easy is it to become focused on the race others are running rather than ensuring we are running our own race well?  And the murmuring ensues. 

 

We are not unlike the Children of Israel.  God has performed mighty miracles in our lives and had granted us a measure of faith to be activated. We often choose not to activate that faith, get caught up in our wants vs our needs and don’t keep our eyes on the prize.  Murmuring, intentionally or unintentionally becomes a way of life. Murmuring is contagious. The masses get unsettled.  And we all find ourselves stuck in the desert wondering why we are taking turn after turn around the same ole mountain again and again.

The Cure for Murmuring-Rejoice!

Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!

Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand.

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God;

and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:4-7

(Philippians 4:4 (NKJV) – Rejoice in the Lord always. Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/nkjv/phl/4/4/s_1107004)

 

When you acknowledge your tendency to murmur, choose to turn aside from murmuring and began to actively replace it with gratitude and rejoicing, you will find that lessons are learned more quickly, faith is more easily activated and one or two turns around that mountain will be sufficient before moving onto the Promised Land. You will not be stuck any longer!

Until Next Time

This week, begin to recognize the rumble of murmuring in your life!  Make the decision not to stay stuck, wandering around the same mountain and in the desert because of murmuring.

 

Well, it is that time again!  My cup is empty and our time has come to a close.  I’m so happy you stopped by!

 

If you are interested in more Devotional reading, head over to my Facebook Page where you will find a Weekly Devotion early every Monday morning. Click here to go directly to Weekly Devotions with Laurie.

 

Until next time,

From my heart to yours!

 

Laurie

July 1 2019

When time is Slipping through Your Hands- Why You Need To Learn To Anchor Each Moment!

When Time is Slipping Through Your Hands - Why You Need to Learn to Anchor Each Moment

Do you find time slipping through your hands?  There is a solution!  Let’s talk about learning how to anchor each moment!  How was your week?  I spent a lot of time pondering time! Right now, I know that it is that time again; I have looked forward to this all week!  Grab your mug and set aside a few moments and let’s chat!

 I know we shared about time as a mindset just two weeks ago, but in my experience, time is a topic that has many facets and therefore is rich for discussion!ch

Make Room For the Breath

In the quick pace of the week past, the question that kept coming to mind in my quiet time was, “how do you make room for the breath in the day?” How do you mark moments so they will stick in your mind rather than allowing time to slip through your fingers as grains of sand? Is it possible to move through at a quick pace and still feel like we have breathed and were truly engaged in all that we have done?

 How often do we move robotically through our day, checking off items on our to do list, for the primary purpose of moving onto the next item, the next day, the next month, the next thing! I wonder if time would/could feel less slippery if we had a better awareness of how to find that breath and engagement in the day?

When What You Thought Were “Unimportant Distractions” Are Turned Into Important Framing Moments

As this swirled around in my thoughts all week, I took note as I painted

my toenails, noticed the cool of the kitchen floor on my bare feet, stopped and really looked at the flowers growing in my yard, took the time to sing along with the music on my car radio rather than using it just as background noise and found myself smiling and enjoying the bright yellow in my dress.  They were small things, seemingly unimportant and not related to all to the things on my to-do list. At first they seemed like only unimportant distractions, but as I thought more about it I realized that these “distractions” became important moments that helped frame my time.  As I sat and remembered these particular moments, I had more of a sense of what happened before and after these moments.  It took away a lot of the “blur” of the day and the feeling of haste.

It was an interesting revelation.  Not necessarily something that I hadn’t known before, but certainly something I haven’t been putting into practice.

What We Need to Know About Moments

In this moment there can be only today and now.  There needs not be a before or after.  If I chose to anchor in this moment I will truly live because when I anchor I honour the moment and my experience in it and that allows me to frame the rest of the time I spend.

How Do I Anchor The Moment? Intentionality and Reflection

There are many ways to anchor a moment. 

 1) Being intentional

Our time must be anchored. It must always be intentional and purposeful; in work or in rest, never wasted or allowed to skip by unnoticed.  That doesn’t mean we always have to be busy.  On the contrary, it gives us permission and space to acknowledge down times and rest in them.  How are we intentional about our time? By acknowledging the moments. Being aware of what we are doing and how we are engaging in it. 

 2) Turning autopilot off

Getting out of the habit of moving on autopilot and into the habit of attending to what we are doing is very important.  We can be thoughtful and reflective as we move, even when moving at high speed. This process will help to frame our time and take the “blur” out of the day. Each moment builds on the one before and a beautiful chain of living follows – like a lightning bolt that traces our path through time.

How Do I Anchor the Moment? Re-Framing and Gratitude

3) Re-framing our perception from one of getting through to enjoying in.

Life is not just about the end point. It is more like a game of connect the dots;   each moment a dot in the overall picture.  One moment not acknowledged leaves a gap in the image. We must commit to noting the moments. Time will pass by but you will have anchored it in the moments and a beautiful image of your experience with time will emerge.  An image, not just for you to look back on but for others to see as you walk your journey.

 4) Gratitude

Intentional gratitude is a wonderful habit to cultivate.  When we are intentionally grateful we begin to see things that we have never seen before; or even better, we begin to see the things we have always seen, but in a new way. Gratitude is taking the time to stop and smell the flowers (literally), the time to stop and engage and truly listen when we ask someone how they are, the time to appreciate the small pleasures in life.  We can also begin to find gratitude in the midst of situations we may not have planned or care to be in, by looking closely to find the lesson or the gift.

What I Know

We can anchor our moments and keep time from slipping through our hands, fully engaging and living our life through:

  • Making room for the breath
  • Allowing seemingly unimportant distractions to frame our time
  • Acknowledging that anchoring the moment allows us to honour our experiences
  • Acknowledging the moments
  • Being thoughtful and reflective, even as we move at high speed
  • Connecting the dots
  • Creating a picture of our journey – moment by moment
  • Being uniquely us
  • Enjoying the ride
  • Letting our hair down and letting the wind blow it where it will.

We are Children of God – we must let others see the joy that is in us, the joy that is uniquely ours and different from what the world has to offer.

Honouring Our Time Together

My cup is empty but my heart is full.  Our time together each week is a perfect example of anchoring the moment, being thoughtful and reflective and intentional about how we use our time.  I’m honoured that you have chosen to sit with me in these moments and I look forward to our time together again next week! 

 

Until Next Time

This week, begin to anchor your time!  Take the time to be intentional and grateful with your time.  A few blogs ago I offered an Attitude of Gratitude download to use.  Dig it out again and give it a whirl. Click here AttitudeofGratitudeMindMap to download it!

 If you are interested in more Devotional reading, head over to my Facebook Page where you will find a Weekly Devotion early every Monday morning. Click here to go directly to Weekly Devotions with Laurie.

Until next time,

From my heart to yours!

Laurie

June 24 2019

My Journey, Your Journey (Sharing Our Stories)

My Journey, Your Journey (Sharing Our Stories)

Hello my friend – you know the drill – grab a cup of something hot in a fabulous mug and take a seat! How was your week?  What exciting things were you involved in? Were you able to find time to check out the last post on Time as a Mindset?  If not, scroll down further and you’ll see it there! I have been thinking a lot this week about My Journey, Your Journey; about sharing out stories and the challenges and benefits of doing so. 

What stories do you have to share?  What stories do you want to really listen to?  The sharing of our stories is an anchor of hope and unity in the Body of Christ.  If I can be real and comfortable in telling my authentic story and you can be real and comfortable in listening to my authentic story and vice versa – then we can begin to connect at a deeper and more meaningful level. Community and unity will follow.

We All Have A Story

We all have a story; every single one of us.  As a matter of fact, each one of us has numerous stories that add up to the one large story that serves as a map of our journey.  Most of us understand that we have a story, what many of us struggle with is not whether or not we have a story, but rather the significance of that story.  We wonder if we have a story worth sharing.  Sometimes we even understand that our story is worth sharing, but then we lose sight of the importance of stepping out and sharing that story.

Why Share Our Stories?

Why should we bother to share our stories and listen to the stories of others? 

 

1) The sharing of stories brings significance to our lives.

2) Framing and sharing our stories builds courage, vulnerability and resilience within us

3) Our stories encourage others

4) The sharing of stories creates community leading to unity

5) Sharing our stories teaches us to be listeners as well as talkers and receivers as well as givers

6) Character is built through the reflective process necessary in the framing and subsequent sharing of our stories and listening to the stories of others

Past Experiences With Sharing Our Stories

What has happened in the past when we considered sharing our stories?  We often wait to be asked to share out story. Some of us have never been asked to share our stories. This may have happened for a number of reasons. People can get caught up in their own stories.  They may believe/assume that they already know our story.  Or, they may want to listen to our story but they don’t know how to ask without coming across as intrusive.

 

When it comes to listening to the stories of others, sometimes we haven’t really known how to listen, receive, or respond.  This has resulted in discomfort, because although there was an effort on both parts, to tell the story and to listen, both of us walked away feeling uncomfortable and unwilling to go there again.

Changing Our Experiences - Authenticity and Framing

The first step to a positive experience in sharing out stories is to begin living and then sharing from a place of authenticity.  Our stories are easier to share when they come from our authentic lives, not lives that are built up and covered up. 

 

Then we need to learn how to frame our stories.  We need to become courageous and brave enough to dig deep for the real in our lives – to find the real essence of who we are and the stories that support that. 

 

Once we have begun to frame our stories, we can begin sharing. A big piece of sharing our story is carving out time to allow sharing to happen.  Time is of the essence.  Not allowing the time and space for sharing to happen can be one of the biggest barriers to effective sharing and listening of stories.  If you haven’t read last week’s blog post on Time as a Mindset that is a great place to start!

Changing Our Experiences - Encouraging And Listening

While we are preparing to share our stories, we can start encouraging those around us to share their stories. When they see us living from a place of authenticity and digging deep for real in our lives to begin framing and sharing our stories, they will be encouraged to begin on their journey to do the same.

 

We can also begin really listening to the stories of others.  We must be mindful to never get so caught up in our own stories that we neglect the stories of others.  Having the opportunity to listen to the stories of others is a gift and a privilege.  Hearing is a passive process.  Listening is an active process. If we begin to really listen to others, receive their stories with grace and actively engage in the exchange, the sharer of the story will feel cared for and will be more likely to step out and share their story again and again.

Why Does It Matter?

Why does it matter?  Is it really necessary to share our stories and hear the stories of others?  YES!  Life is a blank book full of pages waiting to be written on.  We often consider the living of our life all that is necessary to fill in those pages; but in reality, until we have shared that life, those pages only tell half the story!  When others only watch our life and never have the opportunity to hear our stories that leads to assumptions and misunderstandings.  Assumptions and misunderstandings about our life encourages us to build facades to make things look better and walls to keep others from getting too close to see the cracks.

 

The telling of our story encourages authenticity, transparency and clarity around who we are, where we’ve come from and where we are going.  The hearing of our authentic story encourages a deeper and truer understanding of the same.

 

Future Possibilities

When people come together and tell their stories and listen to the stories of others, new stories and future possibilities are created.  There is power in coming together and sharing.  Coming together allows for the power of creativity and ideas, the power of validation, the power of collaboration and the power of support and encouragement. 

 

The listener is encouraged and the sharer is validated.  Both have a good experience and they feel empowered to go out and engage in the process again. There is a more accurate and gracious understanding of one another.  Community and unity are created and grow. And the process continues.  People began to connect in a meaningful and deep way. People began to carve out the time and space necessary for continued connections.  The future possibilities are endless.

What Next?

Would you like to learn more about writing, telling and sharing your story? Would you like to learn how to really listen to the stories of others?

Let’s get on board and become fabulous storytellers and expert listeners – we live the material everyday – let’s begin to frame it, let’s put it on paper, let’s put it to hearts and minds and in doing so, build a community that lives in unity and can’t easily be pulled apart.

 I would love to hear from you!  Drop a comment below.  Tell me about your experiences with sharing your stories and where you would like to go from here!

Until Next Time!

Well, my friend, I can see the bottom of my tea cup which tells me it is just about time to go.  I am sure happy you took the time to drop in today.

See you again next week, same time, same place!

 

This week, begin to think about your experiences with telling your story and listening to the stories of others.  There is more for all of us if we commit to changing our past experiences and move into a future of possibilities through sharing out stories!

 

If you are interested in more Devotional reading, head over to my Facebook Page where you will find a Weekly Devotion early every Monday morning. Click here to go directly to Weekly Devotions with Laurie.

Until next time,

From my heart to yours!

Laurie